switch tbb to parallel (ninja) build

include/tbb_from_source

 RUN git clone --depth=1 https://github.com/wjakob/tbb /tmp/tbb && \
   mkdir /tmp/tbb_build && cd /tmp/tbb_build && \
-  cmake /tmp/tbb -DTBB_BUILD_PYTHON=ON -DTBB_NO_DATE=ON -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX=/usr/local && \
-  make && \
-  make install && \
+  cmake -GNinja /tmp/tbb -DTBB_BUILD_PYTHON=ON -DTBB_NO_DATE=ON -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX=/usr/local && \
+  ninja -j $(nproc --ignore=1) -l $(nproc --ignore=2) && \
+  ninja install && \
   rm -rf /tmp/*