- CommonSparseMatrix does not provide a backend, so removed the inheritance
- renamed backend -> entries
- throw in get_entry_index if entry is not in pattern and is meant to be
modified
- exclude CommonSparseMatrix from solver tests as there is no solver
specialization yet

The problem was a locked method calling backend(), thus calling
ensure_uniqueness(), which in turn waited for a lock. The solution is to
first ensure uniqueness and obtain, then lock, then use a reference on the
unique backend. This is in general acchieved by
```
auto& backend_ref = backend(); // calles ensure_uniqueness()
std::lock...
// work with backend_ref
```

To make it a bit more explicit what is going on we could also let
ensure_uniqueness() return a `BackendType&` and use that instead of
backend().

Since those could not be guaranteed to be thread safe.

And require it in ContainerInterface. This will allow interface default
implementations to call ensure_uniqueness() only one in a for loop.

That commit broke test discovery for me.

This reverts commit ac665edb.

The FindEigen script's variable name had changed so these tests haven't
beeen built in a while.
Also disables trying to compile eingemmappeddense for complex fields.

- macro is not a function

* do not hide get_entry_ref in derived classes
* use CRTP for operator[] (this will facilitate athread safe implementation
  at some point).
* implement operator[] by get_entry_ref only in derived classes